A common saying these days is “life comes at you fast” and it only seems to come faster as we age. When we’re young and think we will live forever we begin to place milestones in the future as we hope it will unfold. Well this isn’t about me or any regrets that I may have, I talk about that enough, too much in fact lately.
This is about my daughters. They were born seven years apart and are as different as night and day, but so much alike. It amazes me to watch them as they interact with each other even today. My amazement I guess comes from the fact that I was an only child so every day is still new to me.
We don’t get together as much as we used to. The last time was just over two weeks ago for my birthday. The oldest has her family including her son Graham, now six months old. The youngest is a senior in college and tomorrow is a big day for her, she sits for her GRE.
The oldest is a pharmacist with a Doctor of Pharmacy degree. This was what she had determined was her path in life when she was in high school. When my youngest was a junior in high school, I had a mid-life crisis, but I was in my late 50’s. After a period of time, I got my act together, but there was an impact on my youngest. In her senior year of high school, I realized that I was in no shape to get her to college.
I asked her if she could wait one year, an eternity for a high school senior, while her classmates moved on. I promised that I would get her where she wanted to go. It was tough news for her, but she worked, I worked and one year later she entered the university of her choice.
After three and a half years, tomorrow is a milestone day for her. She has an overall GPA of about 3.8 and can pretty much pick and chose where she wants to go next. There is a lot going on in her world and I am so proud of her.
There is a lot going on in the world in general right now, in the United States in particular. Tomorrow, promises to be a day like we haven’t had in this country in quite some time.
For me, tomorrow is a day of pride. My baby sits for the GRE tomorrow afternoon. That’s a milestone for her. It’s a milestone for me. I’m so very proud for her. I know she’ll do well. The rest of tomorrow, for me will just be noise.